Today I remembered a time I was in pain. Pain not physical because when I told people I was hurting and they asked where, I couldn't say. I don't know if it's appropriate to describe the period I went through this ordeal with 'a time' because it lasted a pretty long time. I didn't know… Continue reading On Depression and my silent scream for help
I was captivated by her hair; black ombred to brown, speckled with white that I reckon was associated with the hard times she went through, her skin was dark, darkened by the sun but her eyes, her eyes were different. No one could look at those eyes for long maybe for the fear that they would be seized, captured by what they gave. But I looked
Every little girl has the dream of finding her Prince charming. The one who's going to rescue her from the highest room in the tallest tower -which is a metaphor for whatever misery she thinks she's in at that point- and they'll fall in love because it's written in the stars and live happily ever… Continue reading An Evergreen Wedding Playlist that you’d definitely love.
Every book lover (Forgive me, for some reason I think bibliophile is a rather strong word) has a book or some that they will never forget. Those books whose words are etched in our hearts and minds forever and sometimes these books change the way we think and the decisions we make. But other times,… Continue reading 5 books that messed with my head – 1
It's a new year and we're running a new system ...or that's what we think. But many of us are carrying old baggage into the new year. Thinking "Maybe this is still useful. Maybe it'll change" And I can relate because I'm a hoarder like that but I'm sitting on my bed surrounded by a… Continue reading When a good thing becomes toxic
It's 3:35pm on a warm Monday afternoon and I'm feeling pretty content with myself over nothing in particular. Maybe it's over something because: I've just completed a book I started reading last year; The Hate U Give and I'd write a review but I've not got the hang of it yet. I found love in… Continue reading Dear Public Diary_ 07/01/19
It's been two years since I met Lade (not her real name) and two years since I was part of a game that I cannot forget.Lade was a tall, somewhat light-skinned girl with a beautiful husky voice, and teeth so white they almost shone in the dark. We met at a competition in which we… Continue reading The state of her vagina
When you were a kid, you had a mental image of what you'd be when you grow up. It might not have been clear but you were sure you'd do something amazing, you'd be an influencer, instrument of positive change.
Now you're older but not distinguishably any wiser. And you're working hard, really hard which makes it even more confusing because this isn't how it was meant to turn out.
From Britney Spears to Michelle Obama and Rihanna to the queen of all girldom; Beyonce. These women are just a few of the pillars that have ensured the longevity of girldom and are women that followed the rules to the letter and even included some as they went along. The Girl Code is a set… Continue reading The Girl Code
Deck the halls with boughs of Holly 🌲 ...'Tis the season to be jolly 🎅 Or not🙅 For so long, I've dreaded the holidays.. so much that once it's September I'm overcome with "holiday gloom" and for good reason too (it's good enough for me at least). In some of these moments of solemnity, I've… Continue reading This is why I hate Christmas.
Isn't it just incredible how we've come from the stone age, iron age, bronze age and now the computer age. And for each of these time periods, organisms learned to survive by developing certain skills and adaptations to suit the requirements of their environment. Now we seem to have conquered those ages and finally we've… Continue reading 10+ Must Have survival skills in the 21st century.